Change Your Life with 3 Habits

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Change is what we all seek but yet only a few are able to achieve a worthwhile lasting change. John C. Maxwell wrote in one of his books that ‘you will never change your life until you change something you do daily’.

The major difference between successful people and others is that successful people live consciously by habits while others live unconsciously by them. People who succeed do have clarity about their destination and as such develop habits that will get them there.

How do I form an habit? You simply do that by committing to a task on the daily basis. When you are consistent at it, it will become an habit.

Here are three key habits that you need to develop to join the ranks of successful people. The return on investment for the three habits are enormous.

Habit 1 –  Daily Self Evaluation

One way to go about this is to start keeping a personal journal. A life worth living is worth recording. Personal journal will contain how you spend each and every day of your life. This will enable you to be able to to keep track of your life events, keep track of your goals, how your life has been and the direction that your life is heading.

The trick here is that you will not just keep a journal for keeping sake, you will ensure you evaluate yourself daily. This is to be done at night before retiring to bed. It is like a review of how you spend each day, things you did right and the mistakes you made. Always ask yourself, how can I make tomorrow better? It will help you be in control of your decisions and your life.

Habit 2 – Teleological Thinking

This is your ability to consider the longterm consequences of your immediate actions before you embark on them. Every action is a cause set in motion and for every cause, there is a corresponding effect. Being able to consider longterm effects before taking actions will enable you to take actions that are congruent with your goals.

Habit 3 – Daily Accomplishment

I learnt so many years ago from an audio program by John Milton Fogg that accomplishment is made up of three things that if you can do them daily, you will accomplish every day of your life.
Firstly, Always Learn New Things. Learn new things everyday.

Secondly, Always achieve Results. Achieve results everyday whether it is to achieve a goal, add value to others, or make someone feel better.

Thirdly, Always Have Fun. Nothing must deprive you of enjoying your life everyday. What does fun mean to you? Don’t seek out immediate gratification or things that will offer immediate pleasure only to come back to hurt you later. Enjoy what you do and have fun.

If you can Learn a new thing daily, achieve a result daily and have fun daily, you will always accomplish all the days of your life.

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“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an action but a habit”. – Aristotle

The best of readers are those who read and take action based on what they read. I hope this will inspire you to take action towards turning your life into a masterpiece.

To Your Success!

Bode Araoye
Life Strategist
Personal Growth Expert
Business Trainer

Enjoy The Life You Have Today

today-matters-slide-590x230Thinking about the future should not stop you from enjoying today as much as possible.

So many people live each day of their lives merely preparing for tomorrow; to them, they are only preparing to live.

Who you are today in totality i.e. your current reality is the sum total of your past thoughts and actions.

Yesterday with all its worries, challenges, opportunities, success and failure is gone. It is done and dusted. You can kill yourself with worry about the past, it won’t change anything. You can’t change your past.

Tomorrow with all its hopes, opportunities, and challenges is yet to come and for some, tomorrow may never come. Having fear about tomorrow is only a sign that you need to prepare more today.

Today is your best shot at life. It is the best gift that life has bestowed on you. The way you spend today will really determine how your tomorrow will be. Each day comes with its own unique seeds of opportunities.

If you can take care of today, doing all the things that matters today, tomorrow will surely take care of itself. That doesn’t mean you will not plan for tomorrow. Whatever your plan for tomorrow is, execution must start today. You must take actions today that will take you closer to your destination.

The first best time to plant a tree is 20years. The second best time, is NOW because tomorrow may never come.

Focus on making the most out of today and you will start turning your life around positively.

Just for today, Decide To;

• Display the right attitude

• Acknowledge all the things in your life that you are grateful for

• Choose and keep good company

• Display good character and conduct

• Live in accordance to your values

• Work on your bad habits,

• Amend your broken relationships and keep in touch with your loved ones

• Stop worrying about your past and become hopeful of your future

• Acknowledge this is the best time you have to live your dreams and start living it now.

See you at the top!

To your Success

Bode Araoye

Life Strategist